As kids grow older, they go through more emotional changes.
With puberty, hormones and learning how to handle things differently such as
school, home life, stress and more responsibilities, kids can easily get lost
in the juggling act of stress. With the new world of hormones and emotions,
kids can experience a whirlwind of feelings. Our textbook talked about the dip
in self-esteem as kids go through puberty and look at themselves differently. I
think kids and young adults are putting far too much pressure on themselves to
do well and get in over their heads on what others think. I feel for the kids
who get stuck in a “rut” and can’t seem to find their way back. I also
understand the stress that kids are putting on themselves now, and can
understand why they feel the need to do well at a lot at once. Reading about
depression and suicide had me really thinking about why kids feel the need to
do well all the time. I found it interesting how the book talked about the age
groups and studies on depression and suicide. When reading the chart, I wouldn’t
have expected the girl’s depression and suicide rates to drop as they went
through high school and the boys to stay roughly the same or go up. I also
found no surprise to read that the rate of suicide is higher than it was 50
years ago. Like I said earlier, I think kids put far too much pressure on themselves
to do so well and worry too much about what others will think. With a mindset
like that, you’d naturally feel the pressure to do well and obligated to not disappoint.
I hope society will change in the future so the pressure is far less and kids
can enjoy their school careers and their young adult lives.
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